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I want a girlfriend, really bad! I am 21 years old & i’m a male, in California.I haven’t had a girlfriend since I was 13, and I am soo damn clueless now, as for what to do. A little about my history: I was a beautiful boy, all the girls loved me & would fight over me. I had a huge self esteem, 100% confident all the time. Than I got terrible acne, ruined my confidence, I would NEVER EVER TALK TO GIRLS. I was still social however, I dropped out of public school, and got home school from 10th grade ’til I graduated. So I was never forced to be with guys & girls my age & experiment on my own. I had that terrible acne the entire time, all I had were my old group of friends, that stuck with me the whole way. They never brought up my acne. I went the entire time w/out a girlfriend, I am so damn clueless what to do. I am a very funny guy! I have very interesting things to say, I have a great personallity, I know girls would love me, the problem is I never spend time with girls. I am now 21, I have my confidence back, most of my acne is gone, how ever I do have some acne scars & the entire time I had acne, I would never look anyone in the eye, not even my friends. So now its like i’m one of those kids from a broken home, I am all screwed up in the head kind of. Its like that saying “its easier to build a boy, than it is to fix a man” or “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks” its like I’ve already programed my self to be scared of people, and i’ve been trained to be insecure etc… So i am the result of being pretty much by my self, or on my own for my entire teenage and young adult life, I want a girlfriend SOO DAMN BAD! and i’m too embarassed to ask advice from my friends, or from an actual person, face to face. So here I am on the internet, seeking advice from people, who know my situation. I am also very bold, I just need to break the ice. Seriously, i just don’t know where to begin. I don’t know how to get a date! I need girls in my life. I don’t work, but I do make a living, w/out working. I don’t really go to school, so girls are not “automatically part of my life” you know? So that is where I need help, I have friends that have the same circumstance, just the occupational part, as far as work & school. And they still manage to get girlfriends, and go on dates every week, i’m like DUDE! I NEED TO GET IN THERE!!!! and I see kids that have way worse acne than I ever did, w/really good looking girlfriends & healthy relationships. And I see guys that are way worse looking than I have ever been, and they still manage to always have a girlfriend, and always be with girls, going out w/girls. here I am, looking like a homosexual all on my own all the time! I need help! please help me! I will read pages, and pages, and pages of what you have to offer me. You will not be wasting your time, by deciding to give me advice. I will gladly soak it all up! i am a very bright individual, and also very humble & thank you very much for your time!thanks again!

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