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DISCLAIMER: This is super long! I’m sorrry!!!My husband has been nothing but rude and unsupportive this whole pregnancy, in my opinion, of course not his.First of all, at the beginning, he was a raging alcoholic. He drank 7 days a week, not to get drunk, to get OBLITERATED. At 3 months pregnant, the NIGHT before he left for training for a month, I was trying to carry him into our house from his friends house because he was too drunk to walk. I was hold his head up in the car so that he would not slam it into a window when we turned corners or choke on his vomit because he was passed out. I told him I was going to leave him, so he said he’d quit. Lately he’s been drinking again, and I can not get him to stop. he wont.All he cares about is having his buddies over, and drinking and BLARING music, to the point where the neighbors call the cops.The other night I was having severe pain, and if I had had to go to the doctor I wouldn’t have been able to drive myself, and he of course was too drunk to drive me, he said “if we had to go i would have figured out how to get you there”. I don’t feel like it should even be an issue. He should just say “Honey, get in the car, I’m taking you to the ER”.AND, we have a roommate, one of his Marine friends, and I swear they are dating behind my back. (figuratively lol). All they want to do is hang out and play video games, our roommate is CONSTANTLY talking shit about me, and my husband does nothing but stand up for him.My husband is always putting me down, telling me I’m faking and sh!t. I am at my wits end.ALLL day I have been feeling really sick, and SO tired (he wont LET me quit my job, even though I have to drive an HOUR to work every morning, stand ALL day, drive an HOUR home everyday and I don’t get paid SH!T!!!!) and as soon as he got home he called for me (I was laying in bed) to come to him like I was a freakin dog. it took him 10 minutes to walk to the bedroom to even say hi to me, then got pissed when I was sick and sad and tried fighting with me. Instead of giving me a hug, he starts trying to have sex with me, and his friend, our roommate turns on this song (He plays this song over and over and over for an hour or 2 every morning, while they get ready for work) and I just said something in a low voice like “are you kidding me? I am so sick of this dam song!!” and my husband started yelling at me and calling me names. Sorry this is so long, I am in Hawaii where I have No friends, No family, I left EVERYTHING I had to come out here and be with him, so I need to vent, and my QUESTION is… Do you think I am just crazy and that he is correct in saying “You are Wrong About Everything.” and that I am just making a big deal of all of this, maybe it’s hormones? How would you guys feel?P.S. I am 6 months pregnant.

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